How to Meet Safely
Don’t forget that the only person responsible for your safety is you, so don’t put yourself in a dangerous situation or a situation where a stranger can let you down. We strongly recommend studying these ‘how to meet safely’ guidelines.
Remember that we do not perform background checks and while meeting a long established and well rated member may be less risky, it does not guarantee it.
Don’t put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn’t turn up, you’ll be upset. So don’t travel 100s of miles and book into a hotel in the expectation of meeting someone unless you’ve met them beforehand.
How to Meet Safely:
- DO always meet somewhere safe and public (e.g. a cafe).
- DO always tell someone you trust who you’re going to meet, when and where.
- DO always meet socially before taking things further.
- DO respect your health and that of others, see the resources on our sexual health page.
- Don’t give strangers your personal details (e.g. address, place of work, phone number)
- Don’t rely on strangers for transport, so don’t go in a car with someone you don’t know.
- Don’t meet new accounts with no verifications – it’s more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.
- Don’t turn up to strange addresses without having met the people you’re expecting, first, beforehand.
- Don’t meet while affected by alcohol or drugs. Similarly, don’t meet anyone who appears to be affected by alcohol or drugs.
- Don’t arrange meets without having spoken to the people you’re expecting to meet first on phone OR on seen on cam.
- Don’t invite strangers into your home.